the Ideal Number of a Family is six or eight!

Argumentative Essay

All people might have married and made their own families through out the world. And they have had more or fewer childrenless. Generally people in most developed countries(MDCs) have tendency to have fewer sons and daughters than do less developed countries(LDCs). How ever, it depends not on rational decision but on social, cultural reson. For example, the families living in many African countries have more children than other families living in MDCs have because they need more kids to join in working with parents and to take care of other siblings.. How ever, having too many kids makes it difficult for parents and society to bring them up. Therefore, I insist that the Ideal family is composed of six or eight household members.

First, six household members have to consist of two parents, two daughters and two sons. If a family is composed of eight, this family consists of two grand parents, two parents, two daughters and two sons. It is the most ideal sexual balance to maintain the populations on the Earth. As a matter of fact, some generations have broken down sexual balance in Korea due to the fact that some Korean parents like the son more than the daughter. This social phenomenon occurred in the beginning of the 90s; after a decade year, some sociologists said that some men born in the end of the 80s and the beginning of the 90s would not be able to find out their brides in Korea. Besides, now is more important to what gender children we have than how many kids we have.

Next, two sons and two daughters make them all kinds of relationship within the family. They have the aunt, uncle or mother's sister and brother. To have too few childrenless gives our children to have incomplete family relationships. for example, many Chinese people living in China are not allowed to have more two children a couple of husband and wife to decrease populations by the Chinese government. Moreover, if the first child is the son, his parents can not have second child as Chinese law to control the population in China. So, most young Chinese boys and girls do not have complete family relationships. The family relationship is based on large social relationships because our society consists basically of the family composed of parents and kids. Consequently, all married couples must try to give their children to get all sorts of the family relationship to learn basically social relationship as much as they can.

on the contrast, some people claim that a couple of married people must have fewer than two children because of increasing overabundant population in the world; how ever, it is not a problem any more in this centry. recently, several population census showed that superfluity of the population is regional problem in places such as Bangladesh and Brazil. preferably Japan and Many European countries worry about downsizing their populations. In fact, many European countries such as France, Sweden and Netherland have less than 2% birth rate per a woman. Accordingly, most families do not need to worry about increasing the population when their family plans are established..

In the conclusion, we have to consider how many children we have or how many children ideal number is rather than how big population is. So I suggest that the ideal family should consist of two boys and two girls. It is the best way to maintain the number of the population in the world and to preserve gender balance between men and women. Furthermore, our offsprings would get all kinds of the family relationships such as aunt and uncle, mother’s sister and her husband and so on.